FREE YOURSELF - LET GO!

Letting go is one of the most hardest part of loving. Just the thought that you'll be broken for a while, it's hard to face it. Aside from it, there's so many things that we are scared to handle and to live with, there's so many thoughts that we don't want to consider, we have so many questions that we don't want to leave unanswered and most of all, we don't want to have what-ifs in the future. The thoughts that you will wake up one morning and you won't get any morning messages, no one will ask "how are you?", how your day went, no one will check up on you or even will say "Take care"; everything you used to live will be gone. And yes, it is really hard to start your life without the person you dreamed to be with in the future. Change is scary, but it is also favorable and helpful sometime, take advantage of it, you just have to know the right way how to embrace it, just embrace it! Take all the good reasons why its beneficial, I'm sure you'd come up with one, or even more. It is hard, it will always be hard, but you know, you need to believe that you are strong enough to go through this and you will get through this. Sometimes, you need to know when to stop and when to let go, it could save you from the deeper pain you could possibly get in the future. You must be responsible enough to know that sometimes, love isn't enough to hold you both together. And sometimes, it isn't love, it is just fear, fear of starting again, fear of trying to get out of your boat. So you will ask yourself, is it really worth it to hold onto that moment? Or is it even worthy to feel devastated and shattered because you lost that person? Think twice, think as much as you can.

There's no easy way to move on, you just have to trust the process and move forward; just keep going. No matter how long it takes, just walk with it, just live with it and in no time, you will be fine. Just let yourself crying and mourning and let yourself to feel the pain until you surpass it. Let yourself feel all the emotions that you have, acknowledge every part of it. But remember, only you could help yourself to get better. If you need to keep yourself busy, do it. Do whatever you think you need, do everything you can, do everything in your power to move on. Always do everything for yourself. But do not skip the process that you need for yourself; Slowly but surely, always keep that in mind. And do not forget to always, always be better version of yourself even you are in pain, even you are hurting. Do not fill yourself with bitterness and hatred and most especially do not hate yourself because of another break-up. Do not let yourself to become someone hopeless and useless and worthless because of pain or even because of 'whoever' broke you. Pain is there in life for a reason, make it as a motivation to improve yourself! Make yourself successful, more success more than you did before, more than you did when you were still with that person. Always remember that some person has its reason why they couldn't make it to your future, and maybe it's the same reason why you would be more worthy for upcoming years.

After all the pain, learn how to forgive and to forget, that's another part of moving on. Learn to accept yourself again and start a new, accept new things, accept new people, and accept that you cannot bring things back together like you used to; acceptance is the key to everything! Always start your day with Self-love, and everything will follow. Only you could make yourself Happy, no one else. Because no one is responsible for your own happiness, no one is responsible to make yourself feel loved, only you! And always remember that there are still people who always hope and wish the best for you and will not leave you until you win this fight! Let yourself fight a good fight and make yourself win!

To more journey of love and life! <3